3 tips for engaging in playful storytelling with your kids in the Toca Life series.
- Carl Frisell
I remember a friend telling me a method she used when working at an elder-care home. They had trouble getting a particular resident to go to bed. This resident would always think she was on a ship, going on a journey, and “bed” didn’t fit into the story. One night my friend decided to just play along. After a while she remarked how choppy it was at sea, and perhaps they should pull in to port — i.e. the bedroom. Her playmate amicably agreed.
Now while there is an underlying motive to my friend’s method, in giving up her own version of reality in order to play and join in on another’s, she learned to see things from the resident’s point of view. She learned empathy.
Storytelling and role-play is a great way of building empathy and trust. We frequently used it at IDEO to put ourselves in the shoes of those we were designing for. Some of my favorite Toca Boca apps are the ones in the Toca Life series. These apps are great storytelling tools for kids. If you play them as an adult you usually don’t get it. But when you watch a child play, it suddenly all becomes clear. Stories are being built in the child’s mind.
So because kids are amazing storytellers when given the right tools and cast, here are three tips for engaging in playful storytelling with your kids:
- 1. Let them direct. Kids have enough direction from adults in their everyday lives. This is their chance to be the director, so let them be so.
- 2. Get into role. If the director wants you to be the princess, and you have a beard, be the magical bearded princess. Think about how that princess would act and behave so that her, not your, personality comes through in the play.
- 3. Improvise. Don’t just follow orders, but improvise on the spot. A good actor is prepared for any situation. This tip also goes for life in general.
Thanks for tuning in and hit us back with the stories you make together with your kids.